I’m feeling discouraged. I know. It hasn’t even been two weeks. I know.
If a friend of mine told me they were discouraged after less than two weeks, I would say – No! Are you kidding? You have to be patient! You can’t expect her to neurologically change because of her diet in two weeks! And anyway this is about other things too. Helping her chronic constipation, improving her focus and ability to attend to her studies, expanding her food choices, making it possible to one day go out as a family to a restaurant or travel places without bringing an extra suitcase of “Emma’s Foods” or worrying about where we’ll find Stonyfield chocolate yogurt or Wheat Bread, the one with the red label from Whole Foods because she won’t eat any other brand or flavor. This is about not panicking when Whole Foods is out of one of the six things she’ll eat.
This diet requires a tremendous amount of work. And I’m up for the task. But every now and again I just want to complain and maybe cry.
A friend of mine sent me the following story:
An old donkey fell into an abandoned well. The owner of the donkey, ambivalent about how hard he would have to work to try and get his old, and now useless donkey out of the well, decided to fill in the well, a danger to the community and now with the donkey having fallen into it, a way of doing away with the donkey too. So he called his neighbors to help him shovel dirt into the well and as the dirt fell on top of the donkey, the donkey began to bray. Horrible sounds, which did nothing to slow the falling dirt. After a few minutes the donkey decided to shake off each shovelful of dirt and stomped on it with his hooves, while rising to a new level. Soon the donkey was at the top of the well and able to walk out, much to everyone’s astonishment.
I feel much better now and if you’re having a tough morning, perhaps you are too.
The end of the story is that the donkey then trotted over to the farmer and kicked him as hard as he could.
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