Emma has very specific ideas about birthdays. The best birthday, in Emma’s opinion, is one that takes place at one of the many kid’s gyms here in New York City and is followed by a birthday cake or cupcakes with candles and Happy Birthday sung loudly.
However, today is Nic’s birthday and it’s hard for Emma to understand that he did not choose to celebrate it at one of the gyms Emma so adores.
“Hey Em, it’s Nic’s birthday today,” I said early this morning.
“Birthday at Elite gymnastics!” Emma replied.
“No, Nic isn’t going to celebrate his birthday there,” I told her.
“Birthday at other gymnastics!” Emma said bouncing up and down.
“No. Nic didn’t want to celebrate his birthday at a gym,” I said.
“Different gymnastics,” Emma said, trying to process this information.
“Well no. Not any gymnastics.”
Emma was silent.
“Is there anything you want to know or say about Nic’s birthday today?” I asked.
“Yes,” Emma said.
“Okay. What?”
“Happy Birthday Nicky!”
“Ah, that’s so nice of you, Em. Let’s go tell him,” I held out my hand. Emma took it and went over to Nic who was charging his new video game controller.
Emma leaned into his face and said, “Happy Birthday Nicky-Nic!”
“Hey, thanks Emma. That’s really nice of you,” he said, putting his arm around her.
Then she gave him a kiss on the cheek.
Happy Birthday Nic!
Emma looks on as Nic reads a birthday card and opens presents.
Merlin amidst wrapping paper
Nic shows off his birthday haul.
Happy Birthday Nic!
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